The purpose of this study is to approach the Paster\'s Kids troubles as the point of view of Family Therapy and to check the problems of boundary that makes healthy ego and to help Paster\'s Kids who are suffering the self Identity crisis. According to Minuchin\'s theory, the troubles that the Paster\'s Kids have from home, church and the relationship among people happen from an inappropriate structure. And the biggest problem in this structure is boundary and the subsystem should be clear for home\'s normal function. Therefore, to grow up sound Paster\'s Kids, the boundary between parents and kids should be clear and the boundary between home and church should be clear, too. Also, the Paster\'s Kids should have the mind that it is instructive for them to keep proper boundary line from their parents and believers as they are growing up, and sometimes they should be able to decline the excessive expectancy and demand. Also the Paster\'s Kids are in the special growing environment that they should fit themselves in the standardized frame with being conscious of their surroundings before they have the chance to find their identity. To make their positive identity in this environment, it is necessary to have real talking with their parents and to accept them as normal personalities without excessive interference and expectancy. And most of all, people should recognize that they are the kids of God before they become the kids of Paster. The Paster\'s Kids can overcome the crisis of their identity when they are devout. And finally, they should have self-esteem and they should have positive thought that it is a blessing that they were born in the Paster\'s family. Now I hope that all the pasters and believers will have appropriate thought about PK, and Healing & Growing group counseling program for PK will be used for healing and growing of real Paster\'s Kids from each religious group.